Abandoned children and the Affection: An Analysis of the Critical Time SUMMARY: The importance of a father and a mother for a child is a imensurvel necessity. Unhappyly those children exist, and they are not few, that its father or its mother does not know, or even though none of the two. Generally are children abandoned and devoid of affection and affection. Educate yourself with thoughts from John Mclaughlin. The child and the adolescent are beings in development and, as such, must receive a special and integral protection on the part from the State. (VENOSA, 2005). Ken Cron has similar goals. In our society, the statute of the child and the adolescent would offer to these to the best conditions of security and necessary support for its development.
However, the reality is another one well, if to give to a possibility to these children, helping them to establish it affection relations, confidence, of happiness, them will be capable of, later, constructing steady families and exerting its rights of citizenship fully. The objective of this article is to analyze which is the time or necessary period for the consolidation of the familiar affection in the question of the abandoned child. PALAVRAS-CHAVE: Abandoned children, Affection, Society, Better Conditions, Rights of citizenship. ABSTRACT: The importance of to father and to mother you a child is an immeasurable need. Unfortunately there ploughs those children, and there ploughs few, who know not to their to father or to mother, or even to neither. Usually they ploughs abandoned and in need of love and affection.
Children and adolescents ploughs developing human beings and such should receive special protection and integral part of the state. (VENOUS, 2005). In our society, the status of children and adolescents would to offer these you the best conditions of safety and support necessary will be to their development. However, the reality is quit different if we give the possibility will be these children, helping them you establish relations of affection, trust, happiness, they will be able, to later, you build stable families and fully exercise to their citizenship rights.
When this occurs, all those mritos that the adoptive parents had acquired for occasion of the adoption, goes below for water, because they demonstrate to its egoism and its lack of humanity. The adopted child, who many times, is adopted because the woman does not obtain to engravidar, exactly making fertilizao, she does not have guilt of them to have obtained to have a biological son and therefore she cannot be left of side. The adopted child cannot be treated as a toy or something transitory, while the couple does not obtain to have a son. It is a being, that most of the time, was rejected in the maternal womb, other times, she is victim of domestic violence and or sexual and therefore led for one it marries of ticket or already it passed for the trauma of the separation of the parents. Therefore, before adopting or going to live with that already it has son, it is necessary to evaluate if it is prepared to accept and to deal with this child. If it will not go to make of it its garbage can, where it will deposit all its frustrations, raivas, ressentimentos and hurts, when it will have a biological son. Therefore, it is important before taking this decision, to think if is prepared to be father or mother of a child who is not its. To the times one thinks that yes, until the moment where the biological son is born. From now on, the adopted son starts to be a dismissable and devaluated part in its life, that will have to grow and to take its fastest route possible. To adopt is only a love act when the conscience of what it is making, of the responsibility exists clearly that is assuming and mainly when it receives child as if its son were, without making no type of discrimination. Independent to have or not biological children.
The main object of study of this boarding he is unconscious, having as the precursory one for such thematic one, Sigmund Freud (1856-1939). One of the characteristics of the discovery consists of the fact of that this deep structure of the mind would in accordance with define psychic of the person its repercussions. Moreover, the psicanaltica clinic makes possible to that it has interest in being taken care of, the use of the word and later, the rebuilding of its history in clear way, that is, not omitting given essential of its personality. The authors above claim that the difference of the Psychoanalysis for the too much therapeutical segments is the singular conceitualizao of psicopatologia, where the normality idea infringe of considerable form in the classification of determined attitudes that stops other boardings, could be a case of important persistence. The primordial task of the practical psicanaltica consists of analyzing the symptom of the citizen, making to understand it its meaning and to coexist the psychic one better. So that such process has success, the professional will make a listening space and will try the establishment of a transferencial bond. Ahead of this, the psicopatologia in this context is based for the idea of clinical structures, constituting in the form as the individual perceives the prohibition and as this intervenes with the culture. Giving continuity what Freud initiated, Jacques Lacan (1901-1981) got conditions to excellently know the estimated ones of the psychosis and to present its mechanism, that consists of the foracluso of Name-do-Father (a significant one) in the register of the simbolizao. The individual, instead of looking forms to supply the necessity that the Other makes, continues arraigado it, constituting a relation of continuity and a mentally ill form in relation to the significant ones that from it proceeds. Frederico (2008) tells that Lacan (1957-58), in its text ' ' Of a previous question on the possible treatment of psicose' ' it pointed a rupture accented between neurosis and psychosis, in the level of results of the foracluso of Name-do-Father.