Without translation for the Portuguese ‘ ‘ Gestalten means? to give form, to give a significant structure? ‘ ‘. … ‘ ‘ Gestaltung, word that indicates a foreseen action, in course or finished, that implies a process to give form, one? formation? ‘ ‘. (grifo of the author; GINGER. S.; GINGER. ., 1995, P. Contact information is here: Fairstead.

13). It is a specific way to perceive itself and to the other, ‘ ‘ a way of being, acting and to integrate experincia’ ‘ (RHYNE, 2000, P. 37). For being the arteterapia a method, it integrates theory and practical in its to make, serving of compassing in the orientation of the process. It oportuniza the choice of a methodology that leads in appropriate way the new action, of form to integrate artistic making with the man vision, without breaking up it, but understanding it in the totality of its being and in its particular way to be in the world. ‘ ‘ Gestalt is in such a way an art how much a science and all can practise it its way, translating its personality, its experience and its philosophy of vida’ ‘ (grifo of the author; GINGER. S.; GINGER. ., 1995, p.11).

‘ ‘ The Gestalt therapy is, in the reality, a permission to be creative. Our basic metodolgica tool is the experiment, a mannering boarding to pass to a new platform of functioning. The experiment if dirige to cerne of the resistance, transforming the rigidity into one has supported rubber band for the person. Not it needs to be weighed, serious, nor to have a rigorous evidence; it can be teatral, hilrio, wild, transcendente, Metaphysical, funny. The experiment in the ones of the license to be priests, prostitutes, gays, saints, scholars, magos? all the things, beings and slight knowledge that if occult in us.

For Levinger

According to Grandson (2000: 210-211) for explanation of the development of these relations authors they had claimed certain stages, being described in the following sequncia: For Levinger (1974): stadium of attention, stadium of the contact and the stadium of mutuality; for Murstein (1976): Stadiums of stimulatons, the values, and the papers; for Secord and Backman (1974) exists picture stadiums: the precocious one, of negotiation, of commitment, and of institutionalization. Close relatives are all the people in the family with which we reveal privacy, this varies of person for person. Learn more on the subject from Paul McCartney. Entailing parents and children of Grandson (2000: 215) are verifiable the following types of vinluo parents and children: safe entailing, esquiva entailing, anxious or ambivalent entailing, its discretion will be presented more ahead in the emotional entailings therefore has a similarity. Check out Fairstead for additional information. Friendship can – be said that the allotment of information is the inteirao of two people possessing the confidence, the aid voluntary, among others characteristic who are positive for the two. 4 Love as emotion Many definitions had been presented for this love, but the definition that more I believe to elucidate, what it is love as emotion is of (Shaver at al 1987) ‘ ‘ The love is a prototipica emotion that received the highest evaluation from prototipicidade of all emoes’ ‘.

Varieties of love Exist many types of love therefore, the love of mother for the son is not the same that the love that feels for the husband, and aims at turns. We can have the accompanying love and love passion. Love versus friendship Authors had studied these aspects having concluded that a relation exists, being the love consisting of: entailing to one another person; The concern the sacrifice for one another person; the feeling of fusing with the person. the friendship components: the positive evaluation of the other person as having ability, intelligence, maturity. Some types of love exist which can be grouped in secondary elementary schools and, being the excellent aspects so that it has love the following one: the privacy; the Passion; the commitment.